Let s talk kissing! Ever wondered why we close our eyes when kissing? Well,
Dayan Masinde lets you in onВ the reasons as to why that is the only way it should be keep those eyes closed! 1. To let the lips talk After talking and using so many words, kissing is a way we express intimacy that no words can articulate. 2. It is a sign of pleasure We close our eyes everytime we are experiencing something pleasurable; when we listen to a beautiful song, when we pray, when we worship, when we sleep, when having an orgasm, when drinking sweet chocolate. 3. It is a sign of trust You don t have to be eyes-wide opened and on the look out when you are in a place of trust and security. 4.
It heightens pleasure When one of your five senses is blocked, the other senses are heightened in function; ask the blind, the deaf or dumb. When you close your eyes when kissing, your sense of touch that connects your lips is heightened. You concentrate on the sweetness of the lips. 5. It is a sign of surrender It shows you are not fighting the kiss, you re kissing back, you re giving into the moment. 6. To avoid a weird scene It will be weird and spooky when you have wide-opened eyes looking directly at you at such a close distance for so many minutes. 7. You are turned on A long kiss is such a turn on. Closing your eyes is you shutting off everything that is happening around you, to concentrate on the arousal and excitement happening inside you.
Why do people close their eyes when they kiss? Who invented this custom? When you don t keep your eyes closed you re violating a sacred principle. It s like eating cereal with your hands when nobody s around. Nobody sees you, but you still feel weird and like you re violating the natural order. If you need a reason to keep your eyes closed while kissing, here are seven top reasons, according to a poll taken outside Rockefeller Center by sexologist Diane DeLay, PhD, as part of the research for her upcoming book, Love Me Like We re Bunnies : You wouldn t want to see what you look like while kissing, so neither would your partner; Your brain can t make your tongue swirl around if your eyes are moving at the same time.
It s the same principle as trying to pat your head while using your other hand to go in circles over your belly; It s weird enough to kiss with your eyes open, but even weirder to make moaning sounds; For females, it ruins everything if you re fantasizing about Brad Pitt when you re staring at something closer to Steve Buscemi; For males, if you re kissing in the middle of intercourse, with your eyes closed it s easier to imagine baseball; With your eyes open, your lover s nose looks bigger than the Chrysler Building